DGS - Death Grip Syndrome

[bomberdude]

For some time I have an issue. This issue is where sex inc. oral, although great, don't get me over the line. To get over the line I have to wank.

Now the other day I went to a establishment and paid $120 for 2 Milfs to blow me BB. I was just in the mood. As great as it was I sensed that they weren't going to get me over the line in the available time. So whilst one was sucking my balls and the other licking my nipples and urging me to cum I jacked off and came. All in the room were pleased. Lisa commented that "too much tv and handjob no good, then pussy not enough". So whilst we all chuckled I did make a quiet admission to myself that she was right. Watching too much porn and jacking off regularly has had adverse effects. That is, the method, vigour and contact given to oneself to completion is something one gets used to and this results in pussy and oral stimulation not being enough. (as great as it is and ultimately frustrating)

Then I found this on another board which articulated it nicely:

"^It's a symptom that a person develops when they've masturbated too much with a hard grip over their hand, especially taking into account if they've done this in the past for a few years or so. In effect, it reduces the sensitivity of the person's penis quite significantly that the frustration comes from only being able to feel pleasure by yourself and hardly being able to gain the same amount of pleasure or higher from a women in regards to intercourse and oral, considering that sex is not the same as pleasuring yourself in masturbation.

In regards to a cure, using a lighter grip when masturbating, using a fleshlight or just stop masturbating entirely for a lengthy period of time, depending on how bad your DGS is would most likely get back sensitivity in the penis but otherwise, yeah, that's DGS for you.

So my question for the board is has anyone experienced this? If so, how did you address it? Did it work? How long did it take to reverse the effects?

I feel that this phenomenon should be listed as a potential side effect of masturbation. Is wanking once a day excessive?

Genuinely interested and thanks for listening.
BomberD

[bomberdude]

Bellevue St, Surry Hills

$65 30min for 1
$120 30min for 2

[whoreny2]

I think bomberdude is definitely onto something. Especially true as you get older.

I remember in the early 80s before HIV the whorehouses were full of young stunners taking on bareback cocks into their cunts and arseholes with not a condom in sight. The best were ATOC, Golden Apple, Tudor Court (now gone), Pink Flamingo in Kellett Street KX, now Cleopatras or something. Plus the Love Machine and Pink Pussycat if you wanted to bareback some barely legal teen pussy.

At A Touch of Class in Surry Hills you could regularly empty 3 loads into stunningly beautiful brunettes and blondes only to later see them pop up on TV in commercials and then 10 years later they’d be collecting Logie awards.

One very famous “starlet to be” took one load from me in her cunt after 5 minutes ( she was really hot looking and impossible not to blow early with) and then demanded I not stop so I duly kept pumping until another 15 minutes later a second load was emptied then she wrapped her legs around me and demanded again that I stay inside and fire off a third load which occurred about 15 minutes later( there were rest intervals but I was not allowed to withdraw from her).

Of couse all the way through the non stop bareback fucking I could feel my own cum and her juices dripping out of her all over my balls then onto the sheets. It was really hot and I'm boning up just remembering the night.

I even extended half an hour after she wanted me up her arse for a fourth load to which I obliged ( she requested secrecy as anal was against management policy and was stated quite clearly in a notice hanging in each waiting room). So 4 loads in an hour and a half. No chance of me doing that now LOL

Then there was another American girl, another artistic type, on holiday in Oz at the same joint who I saw on multiple occasions on the initial recommendation of a mate of mine who also whored there.

Neither me or my mate were movie goers so you could well imagine the smile that was brought to my face when one night I saw a familiar face on the TV news being nominated for an Academy Award.

My mate saw a different news that night but the same footage and we were almost absolutely 100% certain it was her.

A few years later she actually won the Oscar and a small mole on her back revealed by the low cut back of her dress confirmed everything ( I first saw it whilst bareback drilling her arsehole in pile drive position but up until that moment I had long forgotten the blemish)

Those were truly the days.

Even on Liverpool Street in Darlo the hookers (certainly not all junkies) would all be dressed in leotards parading their wares taking loads all bareback some into all 3 holes.

Those were the days of no rubbers.

In the midst of a recession more women are forced into whoring to pay the bills and there were far more street girls back then simply because there were no where near as many whorehouses around back then especially Asian ones or anything much in the suburbs and Darlo had yet to be gentrified. Almost every second terrace house on Liverpool Street between Darlinghurst Road and Forbes Street had “short stay” rooms.

But then came HIV and out came the Durex and anyways as time goes on wanking becomes more attractive as you cant be bothered going out on a wet cold night to do some whoring. Then you get saddled with a mortgage whether or not you are hitched and the money gets tighter and so rely on more wanking. Back then it was video, then DVD now its Pornhub etc.

So I pondered bomberdude’s post last night as I was busily fucking my favourite cauc whore bareback pussy and arse( I’ve been barebacking her for 7 years now so please spare me the lectures).

My cock was as hard as it was ever when I was in my early 20s and even as I was fucking her lovely shaven tight cunt last night I realized that the sensitivity was just not like it used to be. But perhaps that’s a good thing as I held back for 15 minutes before unloading a massive load into her cunt.

But her arse always conquers me fairly quickly as whenever I push into her arsehole with a full length balls deep thrust I always unload within 4 minutes or so.

So yes the Grip of Death does exist but its not such a bad thing in my case at least. You do get more control which allows for plenty of angle changes when thrusting.

So before I die I just want 3 things to happen:

1) Councils shutdown a lot of brothels
2) Someone finds a vaccination and cure for HIV

and

3) Another major recession

LOL

[whoreny2]

"Is wanking once a day excessive?'

I hope not bomberdude.

Up until around 5 years ago I was regularly doing it (and cumming) 8 times in a day.

Is 8 times a day excessive ?

[bomberdude]

Whoreny2,

Thanks for a fascinating response.

On your first response - I guess I'd be speaking for many regarding your experience with the Hollywood Starlets. Bloody awesome. I presume you're not willing to reveal who so I wont ask. Additionally the pre-HIV bareback world you describe sounds awesome and also scary in today's context. But a fascinating read nonetheless. But the experience you describe with both ladies sounds sensational. Real dream material.

Your second post about wanking 8 times a day. It sounds excessive I'm not really that concerned other than what you experienced (if at all) in terms of side effects?
Were you just horny as hell? Did you use a visual stimuli eg.porn? See, I reckon if I wanked 8 times a day using porn then I do think my sensitivity would be reduced and while I was rooting Id be picturing the porn in my head in an effort to get over the line. Even then, If I was to wank 8 times in a day, regularly, I'm pretty sure a pussy wouldn't do it for me because I wouldn't be aroused in my mind enough, if that makes sense?

In recent times I work from home and that is classic circumstances to get up of a morning, get online, get distracted by porn, wank then go shower etc and then out the door in case there are meetings etc etc. Then late at night get online again and end up having another toss.

[zonked]

also on that topic, you guys should have a look at the movie Don Jon - about a guy who whacks off like crazy even though he's got a girlfriend the standard of Scarlett Johannsson -damn she is so hot in this movie.

[stubanga]

also on that topic, you guys should have a look at the movie Don Jon - about a guy who whacks off like crazy even though he's got a girlfriend the standard of Scarlett Johannsson -damn she is so hot in this movie.

Saw that movie and really enjoyed it! I can sorta see the point. Even when I had a GF previously, towards the end when we were getting more serious and she was staying voer a lot, sure sex every few nights was good, but I just enjoyed every now and then a night alone, bit of porn and you get the picture. The enjoyment it gives and not having to please anyone else can be quite pleasant!!

[Heresjonny]

I love and hate suffering from this.

Sometimes as you say a pussy just ain't gonna cut it.

Other times.... Particularly when you get one of those girls who is a real clock watcher. You know the type..... 15 minutes into a half hour session they sneak a peek at the time. Then a minute later another one. Soon it becomes a turn of the head. It's their way of telling you to finish up. Well, call me perverse (and more than a few would), but that's when I channel my inner DGS and keep pounding. Longer and longer. They start squirming. A look of annoyance comes over their face. Then discomfort. The lube is drying up.

Then you get the "come on baby".

By the 25 minute mark.... Well let's say they're desperate.

The moral of the story. Well there isn't one. Except I suppose, you screw with me, oh boy will I screw with you

[MikeH]

All good tips for sure. Using a penis health creme that contains acetyl L carnitine helps too. It sounds weird, but acetyl L is just an amino acid that repairs nerve endings, which will restore a lot of lost feeling. Man1 Man Oil is the creme I use... it contains acetyl L and is working very well.

[Slimpunter]

I used to suffer DGS. I had a girlfriend who fucking loved how I could stay hard and never went off until she was well and truly through with a screw.

WL's, however, never like this, I've had WL's think it as an insult on their performance, think you're on drugs, or are just being a difficult customer. As mentioned in a prior post on this thread, clock watchers hate this the most.

I still can go for hours, at full speed, without cumming, but I can now work myself up enough to cum when I really want to. After a protracted session of sex, the orgasms at the end are almost always mind-blowing.